Hard to get women dating chatholic dating
Despite Casual Kiss being kind of scammy, with only 3000 monthly visitors, I decided to give it a try all the same – and I wasn’t entirely disappointed.
I joined February 4th, around 7 AM, and received a total of one vote, two winks, and six messages.
From a list of 58 strategies, nearly 500 American college students rated 'acting confident' and 'talking to others' as the two most commonly used methods of playing hard-to-get.
But there were slight differences in strategies between the sexes.
When gals acted coy they tended 'not to call,' 'not to talk a lot,' and 'to stay busy,' more than guys did.
When guys wanted to appear less available, they used only three methods more than gals did including 'acting snooty or rude,' 'saying all the right things but not calling,' and 'treating others like s#@t.' Not surprisingly to anyone who's been single, researchers found that women played hard-to-get more often than men did.
Maybe because they're so gorgeous they're used to guys hounding them 24/7 so if you show disinterest they take it literally, I don't know, but to me it seems like a pointless and hit and miss technique." Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.
According to the research, one potential benefit of playing hard-to-get is attracting a higher-quality mate with the greatest level of commitment for a long-term relationship.Once social interaction takes place, other traits come into their own.It turns out that both women and men value traits such as, warmth, a good sense of humour, and understanding in a potential partner – in other words, we prefer people we perceive as nice."Women derive more benefit from playing hard-to-get because it allows them to test men out and increase the demand men place on them," says study author Peter Jonason, Ph D, an assistant professor of psychology at the University of Western Sydney in Australia.But I’m going to focus on the first three, since they’re the most frequently cited reasons for giving this advice and also the most detrimental.